DAWBER, Allan Ward
1934 - October 10, 2019
Born in Waterloo, Quebec, Al is predeceased by his parents, George and Dorothy Dawber, and younger sisters Janet and Shirley (McIntyre). He is survived by his younger brother Douglas Dawber of North Bay, Ontario.
Al leaves behind his wife of 63 years Helen (Plaviak) and daughters Linda Neault (Robert), Theresa Dawber (Glen), and Janet Finley (Mark), grandchildren Andrew and Kevin Castonguay, Rebecca and Jessica Finley, great grandchildren, Curtis and Colin Castonguay, as well as his beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Al joined the Canadian Armed Forces in 1953 and was a proud member for 36 years. Al loved his work as an Air Traffic Controller. His career took him to many bases across Canada and Europe and brought many people and places into his life before retiring in beautiful Comox in 1989. He is a graduate of Laurentian University. Al’s retirement years were spent volunteering with the Canadian Cancer Society, the National Association of Federal Retirees, the Brooklyn Creek Watershed Society, and the Alberni Project. Al loved nature, golfing, exploring the Island, travelling, and was an avid reader. He was a longstanding member of the RCL Branch #160 Comox, and of 888 RCAFA Wing. Al maintained a positive attitude and lived life to the fullest.
SHAW, Mary Ross
August 31, 1928 - October 5, 2019
Mary Ross Shaw, 91, passed away peacefully in her home with family at her side. Born in New Westminster, B.C., she was the youngest daughter of Norman Ross Coulson and Eleanor Mary-Louise Coulson and she spent her childhood growing up in New Westminster, B.C. until her marriage in April, 1949, to Thomas Shaw of Burnaby. For the ensuing 25 years military life took her and her family across Canada including a three year term in France.
Mary is survived by her husband, Tom, children Tom (Janet}, Ken (VaLori ), Sue (John}, and grandchildren, Murray, Corinne, Mike, Darren, Danny, Amy, Trevor, Kyle, and Jason. And an increasing number of great grandchildren, Paige, Ryder, Kendall, Halle, Jasper, Finley and Benson.
Mary was especially proud of her family. Her loyalty to her husband was unwavering giving him 70 years of companionship and support. Her eldest son, Tom, had a career in education. Son Ken, an international entertainer, had a perpetual fan in his mom. She delighted in his performances and shared in the many celebrations of his illustrious career. Her daughter, Susan, a successful business woman in the Comox Valley was mom’s reliable companion and confidant.
Mary was a founding member of 888 Wing, Lazo, where she put in many hours as a volunteer and organizer. She was on the original committee that drew up plans to build a welcoming club for military families and friends. Her efforts have provided many people a place to visit and reconnect with others who have served Canada. And as a volunteer, when her health permitted, she would work at the Wing on Wednesdays as part of the lunch gang making sandwiches. She did that for over 20 years. Her coordination of several Christmas shows brought much entertainment and good cheer for the members. Also, she organized many bus trips to Skagit and Tulalip casinos for members to have a weekend trip. She was always available to assist with memorials, Canada Day, Remembrance Day celebrations and whatever other event needed a helping hand.
COUTU, Daniel J
April 22, 1961 - October 3, 2019
Dan passed away peacefully with Bonnie by his side and surrounded by family and friends. Marsha, the resident cat of the hospice and who was a great comfort to him during his illness was also there to guide his spirit along the away.
Dan is survived by his wife Bonnie, Claire Lapalice-mother, Ben Coutu-brother, Sylvain Coutu-brother, Lance Schmidt-brother-in-law and several aunts, uncles and cousins.
A very heartfelt thank you to Dr Nataros and the staff at The Hospice at The Views for their kind and compassionate care of my husband during his illness. I would also like to thank 19 Wing Fire Department and 888 Wing (Komox) for their support during this difficult time.
Born in Montreal, Dan joined the Canadian Forces in June 1980 where he served as a Firefighter for over 35 years. After his retirement from the Canadian Forces he worked for Enterprise Car Rental as a driver, a job he enjoyed immensely. Dan also served as President of 888 (Komox) Wing of the RCAFA 2018-2019 and was appointed Chairman of the Board of Directors for 2019-2020 and remained in that position until his passing.
MILES, Thomas Arthur David
- September 5, 2019
It is with great sadness that the family of Thomas Arthur David Miles announces his passing on the 5th of September 2019 at the age of 77. Thomas will be greatly missed by his wife of 54 years, Irene, children Thomas (Kris), Raymond (Amanda), Teresa (Dale) and Stephen (Allison). He will also be missed by his grandchildren Matthew, Kelsey, Aaron, Ryan, Sarah, Andrew, Olivia, Janis and Finn.
Thomas was surrounded by his family as he passed peacefully. A funeral service will be held at 1300 hours, September 14th at Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church on Military Row, Comox. Flowers gratefully declined. Donations made to the Comox Valley Healthcare Foundation would be appreciated.
April 15, 1932 - June 25, 2019
Danny passed away at the young age of 87. He was born in Robinsons, Newfoundland and served in teh RCAF for 30 years. He was known for his love of playing golf, cribbage, bridge and the odd newfie prank or joke. Dan is survived by his wife Bette of 63 years, sons Stephen and Terry (Jody), as well as granddaughters - Ashley, Emma & Sara.
- June 24, 2019
McNabb, Donald (Don) Herbert
November 23, 1934 - June 14, 2019
Don was born in Saskatoon Saskatchewan,the eldest of three children to Leonard and Ruth McNabb. His brother Jim and sister Leona passed before him. Don moved a lot in his long life. He enlisted in the Royal Canadian Air Force at 18, retiring after 20 years and then joining the RCMP in 1973. Don loved the Comox Valley and decided to retire here in 1992. He kept busy, joining the 888 Komox RCAFA Wing, of which he is a past president. Don leaves behind his daughters, Deborah Moore (Terry) and Donna Henderson (Rick), grandchildren Michelle Henderson (Terry), Warren Henderson and great granddaughters, Chloe and Maia Bishop. He was much loved and will be missed.
WEATHERLEY, Maude Maria Elizabeth (nee Anthony)
- May 18, 2019
Passed peacefully after battling a long illness at Comox Hospital. Predeceased by her parents William and Helen Anthony and her sister, Elizabeth Quinlan (Mike). Leaving to mourn, her daughter KellyAnn, son-in-law Jeff and her grandchildren Matthew and Tara. Sisters; Joan Anthony, Anne Stagg (Sam), Helen Anstey (Cedric), Shirley Hawco (Fred) and her companion Jim Holland. As well as a large number of nieces and nephews from St. John’s Newfoundland. A very large circle of friends from Comox/Courtenay, British Columbia and Yuma, Arizona.
CLARK, Robert Maxwell “Max” or “Knobby”
- April 26, 2019
Robert Maxwell Clark “Max” or “Knobby” to his friends, passed away peacefully at North Island Hospital, Courtenay on Friday, April 26th. He is survived and will be dearly missed by his loving family and many friends.
HILCHEY, Irene Anne
August 21, 1943 – March 25, 2019
Born in Esquimalt, Irene passed away peacefully at home in Comox with her husband, Don and sister, Diane Douglas, by her side. She is also survived by her daughters, Lorelie Lee (Dave) Lea Quinn and Kathleen Saunders (Doug) ten grand-children, seven great-grandchildren, her brother, Alan Webb, of Port Alberni, step-sons Ken and Danny, step-daughter Sabrina, plus many stepgrandchildren and step-great-grandchildren. Irene and Don moved to Comox from Esquimalt in 2004. Irene loved to golf, and she was pretty good at it. She was always so proud of winning the long drive contest on occasion in the Wing golf tournaments. She loved to walk with her various walking groups until her health began to fade. She enjoyed her monthly lunch get-togethers with the Red Hat girls, and the Wing girls. She loved camping, especially at Gold River where she enjoyed playing the golf course. Irene was also a member of the Air Force Association of Canada, 888 Wing Komox where she had many friends, and enjoyed cooking for Pub Grubs on occasion with Don, Ronnie and Chuck.
“I will forever miss her smile, her laugh and her wonderful sense of humour."
BLONDEL, Norman Victor
March 27, 1933 - March 9, 2019
Norm is predeceased by his parents John Bertie and Hilda (Ono) Corben-Falla and six of his brothers, Stan, Don, John, Lesley, Dick and Reg. He is survived by his loving wife, Julie Kathleen Blondel, son Neil Blondel (Carol) and daughter Dawn Marie Ullock (Joe).
Norm served 38 years combined service with the R.A.F. (5 yrs) and the R.C.A.F. (33 yrs). After retiring from the military Norm pursued his passion of reading and writing as the editor of the Totem Times. In his leisure time, Norm wrote for the military stations’ newspapers, first starting with the Haltonian School magazine in 1955. In 1958 he was stationed in Greenwood, Nova Scotia. Norm joined the library committee as publicist, beginning his parallel career as a writer with the column “Wings Over Greenwood” Station Newspaper. He ended up writing for the Comox Totem Times “Fish Wrapper” with his “Lightside” humour column.
Norm was known for his English dry sense of humour. A loving husband, who over the 64 years of his marriage adored his lovely wife Julie. They had a lot of fun together throughout their years they enjoyed dancing until physically was unable. As a father he was loving and supportive.
1932 - January 22, 2019
John Haughton, gently slipped away from us. He left with grace and calm. John was an amazing husband, father, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, son and friend.
Born in 1932, John grew up in Wolverhampton England surrounded by the chaos of World War II. Shortly after leaving school he enlisted with the Royal Air Force, just as his father had, to pursue his passion in aviation.
In 1953 his family immigrated to Ontario, where John immediately began working as an appliance repairman. Soon after, John re-engaged into the Canadian Armed Forces where he once again pursued his passion as an Aircraft Electrical Technician. John was then posted to Cold Lake, Alberta where he met and married Lily. After several global postings and the addition of four children (Nadine, Alistair, Kevin and Corrine) they settled down in Comox. John’s entrepreneurial spirit drove him to open his own company, Alpha Electric Appliance Repair. This, in addition to working full-time in the Armed Forces, fulfilled his desire and passion of all things mechanical.
Together, John and Lily fostered 25 children in addition to raising their own. After he finished with the C.A.F., John took the position as the President of the Royal Canadian Air Force Association 888 Wing in Comox. Here he continued to share his love of aircraft with those peers, colleagues and friendships he had cultivated over the years. Additionally, John was treasurer for the 386 Air Cadet Squadron-Comox where he took great pride in supporting the cadets.
Lahaise, Audrey Mary Dianne
- November 17, 2018
Audrey left us unexpectedly from a cerebral aneurysm that resulted in a massive stroke. Audrey’s loving husband Frank (Duke) Reid was at her side in her final moments at the hospital. Duke and Audrey spent 17 wonderful years together and she will be dearly missed.
Audrey is predeceased by her first husband of 34 years Bart Lahaise. Audrey leaves behind her son Brent Lahaise and daughter Kelly ten Holder (Roland) and cherished grandchildren Brayden and Jada ten Holder. Their nana was very special to them. Audrey is survived by her sister Carol Chellew (Peter, deceased) and brothers Terry Seymour (Margaret, deceased), Chris Seymour (Helen), Greg Seymour (Joanne) and predeceased by brothers Patrick Seymour (Cindy Thomas) and Brian Seymour.
“A light from our family is gone
The voice we loved is stilled
A place is vacant in the home
Which never can be filled.”
- February 4, 2018
January 27, 1940 - January 27, 2018
It is with great sadness that the family of David Bews announces his passing. David passed away with his loved ones at his side after a brief battle with lung cancer.
David lived a full and adventurous life that began in the BC interior. In 1960 David joined the Royal Canadian Air Force as an air traffic controller. This led him overseas first to Marville, France, then to Lahr & Baden Baden, Germany. There he enjoyed the German lifestyle to its fullest.
Dave met and married the love of his life, Gusti, there. In 1994 David retired in the Comox Valley, and then spent his days following his dreams of golfing, fishing, camping, and boating. Most of these activities were with his best friend, his son Alexander. To his delight, he and Gusti were blessed with grandchildren in 2006 and 2008, which filled his days with joy.
David will be sadly missed by his wife, Gusti, son Alexander (Ara), grandchildren, Emily & Nicholas, brother Ken & family, sister Cindy & family, nieces Hollis & Dita (Mark), sister-in-law Karla (Heinz).
The family wishes to thank Dr. Stephan Matous for his excellent care in David’s final days.
STUART, Douglas George
May 19, 1935 - December 22, 2017
Doug Stuart passed away peacefully in his wife’s arms at North Island Hospital Comox Valley on December 22, 2017. Doug was born in Norquay, Saskatchewan to his parents, May and George Stuart. He was a tireless sportsman in his youth including hockey, curling, golfing, skiing and baseball. He was drafted to play hockey for a Chicago minor-league team but turned it down to join the Air Force. He later won the MacDonald Provincial Briar for curling in 1965. Doug and his wife, June (nee Rempel) had two children, April and James. The family spent many years together moving all over Canada and were also stationed in Colorado Springs for a few years. Doug was a pilot for most of his career with the Canadian Air Force and retired as a Lieutenant Colonel. Highlights of his significant military career include ejecting out of a Voodoo fighter in 1971, and CO of 442 Search and Rescue Squadron in Comox. He received numerous honours including - NORAD officer of the year, an official thank you from the crew of Air Force One, and the Order of Military Merit in 1984. After not seeing each other for over fifty years, Doug was reunited with his high school sweetheart, Sharon. They were married Valentine’s Day, 2014. They continued to share their time between BC’s Comox Valley and Saskatchewan’s Buena Vista. Doug was a teller of stories, a lover of jokes, a romantic at heart and a loving husband, father, and friend. He will be greatly missed by his wife Sharon Stuart, his son, James Stuart, his daughter, April Murphy, and his son-in-law, Paul Murphy.
BRYANT, James Edward
August 21, 1938 - August 10, 2017
After a courageous battle against several maladies, James Edward Bryant died in hospital at Comox, BC, in the morning of August 10, 2017 – one day prior to his 79th birthday. Jim was born in Calgary and raised in Jumping Pound, Lethbridge, Diamond City, and a farm at Bingley – near Rocky Mountain House. After graduating from high school, Jim wanted to explore new horizons, so after brief stints with highways and oil exploration, he decided to enlist with the RCAF in 1958. Over his career with the Armed Forces, Jim was stationed at St. Jean, PQ, Gimli, MB, Alymer, Winnipeg, Trenton, ON, 2F-Wing (Grostenquin), France (421 Sqn), Cold Lake, AB, and Comox, BC (442 Sqn). He was also deployed on a UNEF peace-keeping mission in Egypt (116 ATU). The aircraft he worked on included the: Sabre, Shooting Star, Starfighter, Hornet, Voodoo, Dakota, Labrador, and Buffalo. After 24 years, Jim retired as sergeant and safety systems technician. While stationed in France overseas, Jim found and married his love, Antoinette, in 1963. Last March, they celebrated their 54th anniversary. Many folks will remember Jim doing yard maintenance and home renovations with his little dog Scamp or serving ice cream at RJ’s in the Comox Mall. Jim enjoyed hunting, fishing, curling, baseball, golfing, and hockey. Later, his interests focused more on gardening, woodworking and collecting coins and stamps. Jim played darts and crib at the Royal Canadian Legion and was a congregant of Christ the King Church. Jim had a very kind heart, quick wit, and contagious laugh; and will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.
“The birds that used to torment the sky
The birds that we so enjoyed to fly…
…may they rest in peace.”
(421 Sqn’s “An Ode to the Sabre”)
THOMPSON, Gary Durant
January 31, 1939 - July 20, 2017
Gary, age 78, passed away peacefully at his home with wife Monique and daughters Diana & Claudine by his side. Born in Ottawa on January 31st, 1939, Gary was the youngest of 6 children. He joined the RCAF on February 9th, 1956 following in the footsteps of his father and brothers Walton & Dalton. During his long career Gary was stationed in many bases including 2 Wing - Grostenquin, France (were he met the love of his life, Monique), Namao, 412 Sqn Ottawa, Lahr, Esquimalt, Toronto, Bagotville and Portage La Prairie. He also found time to serve with the RCN aboard the Gatineau & Kootenay. Gary settled in Comox on Sep 9th, 1989 where he taught cooking to the Quadra Navy Cadet Camp. He became members of both the 888 Wing RCAFA and of Br #160 Comox Legion. As well as Monique, Diana & Claudine, Gary leaves 8 grandsons and 7 great grandchildren.
March 26, 1944 - July 14, 2017
It is with immense sadness we say goodbye to a wonderful husband, father & granddad. Ron passed peacefully with his loving family at his bedside in Hospice after a long and difficult journey with Parkinson’s & Lewy Body Dementia. Ron was born and raised in Calgary and after graduating from RMC in 1966 he enjoyed a successful 35 year flying career in the Air Force, Alberta Government & STARS (Air Ambulance) before retiring in Comox in 2004. Married to his wife Margaret for 51 years they raised 2 daughters; Jennifer Calow (Dave) & Heather Goertzen (Dave) who blessed them with 5 grandchildren. Ron’s amazing life was filled with love, loyalty, kindness, integrity and an endearing sense of humour. He will be missed by his family and many friends.
NEWBOLT, Barbara (nee Higgins)
– June 29, 2017
In life as in death. Barb went out with grace and style. After a short but hard fought battle with cancer she passed away gracefully on the 29th June, 2017 under a beautiful starlit sky. Her children by her side. Barbara was predeceased by her husband, Alan Newbold and then her life partner Hans Kroemer. Barbara is survived by her children: Graham Newbold, Katherine Zwarich and Patricia Newbold as well as her 20 grandchildren and great grandchildren. The clan includes grandchildren Shanna Morrow, Samantha Berner, Robert Grenier, Charity Chwok, Kaitlyn Zwarich, Chelsea Zwarich, Alana Newbold and Saxon Newbold followed by the great grandchildren Brady Newbold, Madason. Brian and, Mathew Morrow, Mya Berner, Ethan, Kendra, Joel and Nolan Grenier, Emily and Logan Chwok with one more bundle of joy (Alana) expected in September.
CASEY, John (Jack)
February 19, 1936 – March 11, 2017
The family of Jack Casey are sad to announce his passing at his home in Courtenay. Jack is predeceased by his brothers Fred, Kevin, Bill, and Edward and his sisters Mary and Betty. He leaves behind to mourn his loving wife Barbara; brothers, Mike, Herbert; sons Robert (Mary), Peter (Tina), daughter Susan (Gaby); grandchildren Jon, Michael, Maggie, Nadia, Lily, Liam, Casey, Lauren. Jack was born in St. John’s, Newfoundland and although he left the “rock” at age 21 he was always a proud Newfoundlander. He served for 33 years in the Canadian Armed Forces and retired to the Comox Valley in 1992. In his leisure, he enjoyed salmon fishing, bowling, playing cards and camping with his many friends along the coast of Vancouver Island. Jack was a loving husband, brother, father, uncle and grandfather who was adored by his family. His sense of humour, gracious disposition and devotion to his family and friends made "Jackie" a man loved by all. A true gentleman who will be dearly missed.
LIVING, Stuart (Stu)
July 22, 1932 – December 4th, 2016
Stu was born in Buckingham Quebec and passed away at his home in Comox, with his wife Barbara at his side. He will be remembered for his pleasant personality and great, dry sense of humour.
BRYDGES, Vilma (Val) (nee Forssi)
August 28, 1944 – November 18, 2016
It is with great sadness we announce that Val passed away suddenly while resting in her Courtenay home at the age of 72. Val was born in Port Arthur, ON to Ruth (Luoma) Myllyniemi, and Edvard Forssi. Val's stepfather Arvo Myllyniemi, from Finland, was prominent throughout her childhood and Val considered him with fond affection. A graduate of King's Business College in Thunder Bay, Val found her calling as a secretary and civil servant for the Government of Canada in North Bay (ON), Lahr (Germany), CFB Borden (ON), 429 Sqn. Winnipeg (MB), 435 Sqn. Edmonton (AB) and Health Services Unit Victoria (BC). She celebrated her retirement in 2002 after 32 years of service. Val is survived by her children Jeffrey (Korea), Jason (Vancouver), Jennifer Kingston (Ryan), and Granddaughter Eeva Kingston (Victoria). She is remembered by sister Aili Manych (Don) of The Pas, Manitoba and was predeceased by sister Gladys Nummikoski (Waino), brother Leo Myllyniemi (Bernice) and brother Edward in infancy.
BATE, Robert James (Bob)
March 7, 1963 – November 28th, 2016
It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved husband and dad. Bob passed away peacefully at home with his family by his side. He is survived by his loving wife, Jennifer; their two daughters, Sarah and Meaghan, his father William; brother, Bill (Hallmuth); sisters, Susan, Sandra (Connie), and Anne (Reg); and his large extended family. He was predeceased by his mother, Mary Ann and sister, Janet. Bob was born in Arvida, Quebec and settled with his wife Jennifer, in Qualicum Beach in 1988. Bob worked as a teacher and coach for many years at Kwalikum Secondary School and abroad at the Canadian International School of Hong Kong. As a coach and mentor, Bob is remembered by his many students and close friends as a charismatic, deeply caring and loving person. He was an avid athlete and loved to play golf, hockey, baseball and tennis. Most of all, Bob loved to cycle throughout Oceanside and up to Comox to visit his family. Bob lived his life to the fullest; he loved to laugh and enjoyed every second spent with friends and family. He will be sorely missed.
DAVIES (McArthur), Mildred "Milly"
January 16th, 1943 – November 16th, 2016
It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of Milly Davies, a much-loved wife and mother who passed from this world at her home in Comox, BC. She leaves her husband, Allan Davies; daughter Melanie and husband Dion Cormier; son Everett Davies and wife Kim; son Nelson Davies and wife Shannon; daughter Lori Roudez and husband Craig McDonald; grandsons Morgan, Devon and Ronin. Milly was born in Carlyle, Saskatchewan where she stayed until 1963 when she relocated to Gimli, Manitoba. She then met Allan, who was stationed there with the RCAF and started her new life as a military wife and mother; which afforded her the opportunity to live and travel across Canada, and Germany. She was an avid athlete who played many sports, but particularly excelled in competitive fast ball as a pitcher, and then later as a much-loved coach of the sport. When not playing sports she could be found proudly managing her successful car detailing business in Courtenay with her son Everett. Most importantly, Milly will be remembered as the heart and soul of her family. Although small in stature she was gifted with a larger than life spirit and warmth, and a sense of humor which she used to bring joy to her family and many friends. Milly was a proud member of RCAF 888 Wing.
LIGHTFOOT, Herbert Russel (Herb)
January 23rd, 1936 - November 8th, 2016
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Herbert Russel Lightfoot. Herb passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of his family and in the presence of Mavis, his loving wife of 56 years.
GAGNON, Leonce Bernard (Bernie)
- October 22nd, 2016
Predeceased by parents Cecile and Philippe and brothers Jacques and Bertrand, sisters Lucille and Marthe. Survived by loving wife Mabel. Daughters Lisa, Francine, Rosemary and Joanne. Grandchildren Azaia, Kory, Sean and Nicole. Sisters Noemie, Christaine, Noelline, Marjolaine and many other extended family members especially nieces Michele and Diane. Bernie served in the military for 21 years, which included Egypt, 3 tours in Alert and many bases throughout Canada. He also continued to work as a civilian at CFB Comox another 10 years. He was loved by many and well known in the community for his work at the Wing and the Legion, also for public speaking at Remembrance Day memorials at a variety of schools in the Comox Valley and all the kindness he extended to everyone he met.
WREGGITT, Margaret (Marg)
June 16th, 1930 - October 14th, 2016
Marg was born in Weyburn SK but raised in Vancouver, our precious wife and mother passed away in St. Joseph’s ER from sudden heart failure with her husband of 63 years, Russ, at her side. Marg was a wonderful person, kind, loving, with a vibrant personality who made friends wherever she went. She had the best traits of her Irish and Danish heritage. She leaves to mourn her husband, Russ, loving daughter Linda (Cheryl) and many many friends. She was predeceased by our daughter Karen just five months ago and by four newborn sons in earlier years. She served in the RCAF, Women’s Division, enlisting in 1951 and was proud to be on Course # 1. She met and married Russ at Sea Island, the best thing that ever happened to him! During their time together they traveled across Canada, to Europe, the UK, and spent many winters in California and Arizona plus took a significant number of cruises. She was always athletic, a fine ballplayer and a steady and fun golfer at Glacier Greens for many years. She was a stay at home mom when the girls were young but later worked at the Empress, Royal Jubilee, and many years at the Lab at St. Joseph’s. Family was her priority and she gave us her love without any hesitation. She was my “social butterfly” and we will forever be “ dancing cheek to cheek”.